6 things only girls who used to party understands


Whether it was due to age or boredom, you’ve decided to quit the clubbing scene.

But if you’re that girl that used to party until the early hours of the day every weekend night, you will definitely get these feels.

1. Shopping for ‘normal’ clothes

You used to look at clothes and wonder if it’s appropriate to wear to the club but nowadays, you’re just looking for clothes that are comfortable and don’t ride up.


2. Worrying that you have no friends

You used to be surrounded by people every weekend night and when you’re not, you on the phone planning for the next party. But now that you’re spending those same nights at home, you’re wondering if you even have any friends any more.


3. Fear of missing out (FOMO)

You’re afraid that while you are reading or just chilling at home on a Saturday night, there are people out there that are having fun and having a better time than you. Well, let me break it to you, you’ve been there before and you know that the scene really doesn’t change.


4. Keeper of secrets

What happens in the club stays in the club, right? You’ve probably seen your fair share of drama and forbidden romances, all which forever will be kept with you till you die.


5. Recognising your own kind

That girl who’s stumbling around on her heels with smudged eyes getting coffee in from you? Yea, you know where she was and what she’s been up to because at one point, you were her.


6. Sense of achievement

You now realise that the hours you used to spend partying and sleeping into the late afternoon can actually be used for much better things. Those were good times but the sense of achievement and accomplishment you get from actually doing stuff are so good, you wonder why didn’t you do this sooner.


Written by Joan Chen

Psychology graduate, K-pop enthusiast and bibliophile.